Steve LeSieur

Adults

Demand for our attention and awareness can be relentless, which makes it easy to get overwhelmed, feel stuck, or lose touch. Think of Individual Therapy as a place where you show up for YOU—for that very being you have been gifted to live this life. We all have a natural drive to adapt, learn, and grow, and we do so in relationship to ourselves, to others, and to the world. We will listen closely—from right exactly where you are—to help reconnect you to your innate tendency to grow. While this can definitely mean tolerating some friction and tension at first (getting comfortable with being uncomfortable), over time, it can recharge your sense of well-being, and your relationships.

Couples/Relationships

Our relationships are vital. Some of the most important relationships are our Intimate relationships, which commonly include stress, tension, and conflict. However, knowing that that doesn’t make it any easier to navigate.

Often, connections with spouses and partners come to feel heavy or hard to navigate. Importantly, communication can be seen as more than just words being exchanged; things easily get lost in transmission—and translation. Becoming fluent in these meta-languages takes some focus and some practice. In Couples Therapy, we’ll slow down communications to listen more closely to what is being expressed and exchanged, so you can better understand one another, and yourselves. Figuring out what we want and where we’re coming from—and what our partners want and where they’re coming from—helps build empathy. In turn, trust and intimacy will strengthen and love will flow more easily between you.

For some of you, the menu of relationship styles, types, and approaches leaves you wanting more or feeling limited in some way. You may be thinking about (or already) exploring alternative approaches to intimacy, like Ethical/Consensual Nonmonogamy or Relationship Anarchy. I have extensive experience in these areas and can help you to explore and negotiate in safe and healthy ways. Together, you and your partners can learn to co-author and co-shape your relationship in ways that do not necessarily adhere to conventional “relationshapes.”

Teens/Adolescents

If you’re a teen, you might be faced with questions like: Who am I becoming? Who do I want to be? Who do others want me to be? Maybe you think: Why can’t my parents or my teachers get me? Why won’t they get off my back? Maybe you’re going through some kind of tough transition, or feel the need to straighten out your thinking. With so much noise coming at you everyday, and so many people competing for your attention, it can be hard to find the time and space to figure stuff out. You probably don’t need another adult telling you what to do. So, in Individual Therapy for Teens, we’ll open up some nonjudgmental space to talk through (and walk through) what’s going on in your life so you can get a better handle on things.

Therapeutic Orientation

I orient relationally and interpersonally with clients, evoking the healing potential of an empathic, dialogic therapeutic relationship, while simultaneously cultivating compassionate curiosity. I help to develop and practice somatic awareness and mindful acceptance about what is arising—cognitively, emotionally, somatically, and behaviorally—right now. My approach is informed by humanistic, attachment, narrative, Gestalt, CBT, and existential theories/practice.  I also facilitate trauma work with EMDR.